Charles J Vida

1926 - 1996
LocationUk
Age69 years
Cause of Deathsepticemia
Date of Birth28/06/1926
Date of Death24/02/1996
Visitors13,496 since 04/10/2008
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DAD WAS A PROUD HUNGARIAN MAN,HARD WORKING , HONEST . VERY TALENTED .DAD WAS CALLED KAROLY IN
HUNGARIAN.
HUNGARY WAS INVADED BY RUSSIANS YEARS AGO.DAD WAS 16 . DAD AND HIS PARENTS, WITNESSES HIS BABY
SISTER ELIZABETH, AGED 9.GET SHOT 49 BULLETS THROUGH HER TINY BODY,HIS MUM WAS SHOT MANY TIMES,SHE
WAS LEFT WITH MANY DISABILITIES REST HER LIFE.ALONG WITH HIS FATHER AND HIMSELF.
DAD MIRACULALOUSY SERVIVED.THE BULLET WENT INTO HIS FACE,THROUGH TO THE OTHER SIDE.

DAD IMIGRATED TO START A NEW LIFE IN ENGLAND.

THATS WHEN YEARS LATER HIS SEVEN CHILDREN WERE BORN INCLUDING TWIN KAROLINE OF DAVID.DIDNT STAY ON
EARTH LONG.SHE DIED AT 6 DAYS OLD.

DAD WORKED HARD PROVIDING FOR HIS FAMILY.HARDLEY A DAY OFF.LOOKING BACK AT PHOTOS,I CAN SEE DAD
LOVED HIS CHILDREN MORE THAN ANYTHING IN THIS WORLD.

KARL WAS CALLED CHARLES BY ALL HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS.ONLY MUM CALLED HIM KARL,OR KAROLY. WE
CALLED HIM APUKA,MEANING DADDY IN HUNGARIAN.

DAD AND HIS FIRST SON KARL ,SHARED THE SAME NAME AND BIRTHDAY.

DAD LOST OUR BIG BROTHER KARL. KARL WAS JUST17.WAS GIVEN WINGS.DADS HEART DIED WITH OUR BROTHER, HE
WASNT SAME MAN ANYMORE, JUST AN EMPTY SHELL. EXSISTING.LOSING OUR BROTHER KARL TORMENTED DAD.

WHEN DAD HAD TO BURY OUR KID BROTHER DAVID.AGED 25.THAT REALLY FINISHED DAD OFF.DADS HEALTH
DETERATED.HE WENT INTO A NURSING HOME IN FINCHLEY LONDON.

THE DAY DAD DIED IN HOSPITAL.LOOKING AT DAD STILL WARM AND LIFLESS.THE NURSE IN CHARGE THE WARD
,SAID TO ME I SHOULD TAKE ACTION AGAINST THE NURING HOME .DAD HAD PRESSURE SORES CAUSED BY
NEGLECT.THEY WERE BADLEY INFECTED.PHOTOS WERE TAKEN BY THE HOSPITAL BEFORE DAD WENT INTO THE
NURSING HOME. ,AND PHOTOS WERE TAKEN BY HOSPITAL WHEN HE WAS ADMITTED WHEN THE NURSING HOME FINALLY
CALLED AN AMBULANCE.

IT WAS TOO LATE.

THE HOSPITAL DID EVERYTHING TO MAKE DAD COMFORTABLE.HE WENT INTO A COMA BEFORE HE DIED.
ANOTHER CASE OF NEGECT IN ELDERLY NURSING HOMES.


OUR FATHER WAS A PROUD MAN,HIS BIGGEST ACHIEVEMENT WAS HIS 6 CHILDREN.INCLUDING OUR ANGEL SISTER
KAROLINE TWIN OF DAVID.
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THIS SONG PLAYING ON DADS MEMORIAL,WAS TAUGHT BY DAD TO HIS CHILDREN,ON THE PIANO FROM VERY
YOUNG.WE ALL WILL AWAYS REMEBER IT.DAD HAD THIS SONG SANG AT HIS FUNERAL IN THE CHURCH,BY A SOLO
SINGER.



DAD WAS OUR MUM AND DAD.OUR ROCK THAT HELD OUR FAMILY TOGETHER.
DAD TOUGHT HIS CHILDREN MANY THINGS IN LIFE.TO LOVE AND RESPECT EACH OTHER,THE IMPORTANTANCE OF
YOUR FAMILY.

WE ARE ALL PROUD TO BE HIS CHILDREN.HOLD OUR NAME WITH PRIDE. DAD WILL NEVER DIE,HE WILL LIVE IN HIS
CHILDREN.



THANK YOU TO EVERYONE THATS TAKES THE TIME VISITING MY DEAR LOVING DADS GARDEN.LOVE HALINA AND HIS
FAMILY XXX


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Angel on the Shore

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It was early September
The summer breeze still warm.
I watched the sunset that night
Sitting on my bayside rock,
A single shadow in the moonlight
Alone with my God.
In the darkening evening sky
A star dropped from the heavens above.
There was such a calm around me,
The gentle light it smiled
As it fell into the ocean.
I thought it had died then,
But no, it danced upon the water
And with every gentle rolling wave,
It drew closer.
It was calling my name
Beckoning that I come to meet it.
I stood up and walked cautiously
As the cooling water,
Swirled around my ankles.
The light, I could nearly touch it
So bright, I closed my eyes.
I turned to look back at the rock, I once sat
And there she was, an Angel on the shore,
A reflection of God's love on the sand
Just looking into my eyes.
We reached out in that moment,
Our hands and then our hearts met.
We spoke, I don't remember the words.
They were lost in the breeze
In the still of the night.
We embraced, then we prayed
No longer alone in our thoughts.
Was this a dream?
Each new dawn,
The waters ebbed and flowed,
The sun, the moon
Did rise and fall,
But we still sit here,
The light still glowing
Ever stronger than before.
Our hearts are warmed
As we watch, more lonely stars
Each single one,
Someone's answer, to a prayer,
Tumble from the cool night sky.
This could be a dream....
But every day I wake to a new sunrise
My Angel, she still sits here
On our rock , with me.
Where sadness once sat
Only happiness now reigns
My falling star, my Angel
So glad you came my way,
As we sit here in the moonlight
Still a single shadow,
Alone here with our God
Angel forever with me,
Under every star lit sky.

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Leza Angel Caroline'S Mum (Friend)

November 30, 2009

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Jude Swaddle (Friend)

November 30, 2009

I will wait for you...

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I will wait for you...
Though we never had a chance to say goodbye,
Remember me...
When winter snows are falling through a quiet sky
I'll remember you
When, in our darkest hour,
You held my hand and prayed I wouldn't go,
But a silent voice called out to me;
My time had come, and I had to travel Home...
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Since then, I know your life has never been the same,
For I visit you each day:
So many times I've felt your pain:
I've watched you cry:
And I've heard you call my name...
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But now, further along life's road I stand
In a timeless world, just beyond your sight,
Waiting for the day when I can take your hand
And bring you across to this land of Golden Light...
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Till then, remember me,
You understand-and try not to cry.
But if you do:
Let your tears fall
For the happiness and joy we knew,
And for the special love we shared,
For love can never die.

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Stephen O'Brien

Leza Angel Caroline'S Mum (Friend)

November 29, 2009

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ONENESS

The moment I die,
I will try to come back to you
as quickly as possible.
I promise it will not take long.
Isn't it true
I am already with you,
As I die each moment
I come back to you in every moment.
Just look,
Feel my presence.
If you want to cry,
Please cry.
And know that I will cry with you.
The tears you shed
Will heal us both.
Your tears are mine.
The earth I tread this morning
Transcends history.
Spring and Winter are both present in the moment.
The young leaf and the dead leaf are really one.
My feet touch deathlessness,
And my feet are yours. Walk with me now.
Let us enter the dimension of oneness
And see the cherry tree blossom in Winter.
Why should we talk about death
I don't need to die
To be back with you.

Written by Thich Nhat Hanh

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Mel Xxxxx (GTS Friend)

November 28, 2009

The Balm Of God's Love

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When we lose someone we love
The loss seems too great to bear
God sends us friends to comfort us
To show that He deeply cares

But in the dark hours of the night
When there’s nobody else around
When we feel the saddest and loneliest
It’s there God’s love can be found

It’s like a soothing, healing balm
To soothe our broken hearts
The healing oil poured over us
That flows into every part

We can rest secure in God’s love
And know He’s by our side
He holds us when we feel as though
A part of us has died

We can know that God will listen
When we just want to talk
And when we feel we need to cry
We can share it with the Lord

For He is always waiting there
Ready with arms open wide
As we pour out the hurt within
He pours His love inside

Our Father above loves us so much
And will never leave us alone
He will not forsake us in our need
To face this on our own

He comforts us and strengthens us
And rubs us with His balm
And as the dawn breaks through the night
We’ll awake in His loving arms.

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By M.S.Lowndes

Leza Angel Caroline'S Mum (Friend)

November 28, 2009

GOOD MORNING BEAUTIFUL ANGEL

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To Those I Love
If I should ever leave you
Whom I love
To go along the silent way. . .
Grieve not!
Nor speak of me with tears
But laugh and talk of me
As if I were beside you there
(I'd come. . . I'd come
Could I but find a way!
But would not tears and grief be barriers?)
And when you hear a song
Or see a bird I loved
Please do not let the thought of me be sad. . .
For I am loving you just as I always have. . .
You were so good to me!
There are so many things I wanted still to do. . .
So many things I wanted to say to you. . .
Remember that I did not fear. . .
It was just leaving you that was so hard to bare
We cannot see beyond. . .
But this I know:
I loved you so. . .
'Twas heaven here with you

♥ By...Isla Paschal Richardson ♥

♥Love ♥ Always halina xxxxxxxxxx

Halina A (Daughter)

November 28, 2009



28TH NOVEMBER 2009

GOODMORNING SWEET ANGEL


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Your presence I miss,
Your memory I treasure,
Loving you always,
Forgetting you never.

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We do it every day,
Missing you is a heartache,
That never goes away.

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Jude Swaddle (Friend)

November 28, 2009

27TH NOVEMBER 2009



Forever in our hearts.

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Jude Swaddle (Friend)

November 27, 2009

Where do they go to?

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Where do they go to, the people who leave?
Are they around us, in the cool evening breeze?
Do they still hear us, and watch us each day?
I'd like you to think of them with us that way.
Where do they go to, when no longer here?
I think that they stay with us, calming our fear
Loving us always, holding our hands
Walking beside us, on grass or on sand.
Where do they go to, well it's my belief
They watch us and help us to cope with our grief
They comfort and stay with us, through each of our days
Guiding us always through life's mortal maze.

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KevF - 21st August 2007

Leza Angel Caroline'S Mum (Friend)

November 27, 2009

TRIBUTES FOR THE WEEKEND
Thursday.
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Although the World keeps turning
And the sun comes up each day,
Life has never been the same
Since you were called away.
You were such a special person -
So, gentle, good and kind
And have left the sweetest memories
And thoughts of you behind.
I only wish there was a way
That I could see you one more time
To thank you for the joy you brought
Into this life of mine."
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Friday.

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When you feel you miss me most,
As years go driftin by,
Each memory will prove to you,
That love can never die,
That while I left you far too soon,
I did not go alone,
For the father sent his angels,
To gently take me home,
Take comfort when you think of me,
Hold my love deep within your heart,
And with the warmth of every memory,
We will never be apart.
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Saturday.
Never think you are on your own
I`d never let you walk alone
When you`re down and want to cry
Let it out, let your tears run dry,
I watch and guide you everyday
So that you can find your way
And when you`re down and in despair
Just call my name and i`ll be there,
Right by your side through good and bad
But you need never feel sad,
Until it`s time for your journey home
Just remember you`re not on your own
We`ll meet again sometime soon
And we`ll be together, like the stars and moon
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Sunday.
I have a picture of you I carry in my heart
Close my eyes to see it when the world gets dark
I have a memory of you I carry in my soul
I wrap it close around me when the nights get cold
If you ask me how I am doing I would say just fine
But the truth is if you could read my mind
Not a day goes by that I don’t think of you
After all this time you are still with me that is true
Somehow you remain so deep inside
This memory I will never ever want to hide
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Monday.
My Angel ever at my side
how lovely you must be -
To leave your home in heaven,
to guard someone like me.
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When I'm far away from home,
or maybe hard at work
I know you will protect me,
from harm along the way.
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Your beautiful and shining face,
I see not, though you're near
The sweetness of your lovely voice,
I cannot really hear.
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When I pray, you're praying too,
your prayer is just for me.
But, when I sleep you never do,
You're watching over me
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I think of you so often
And I think of you with love
I think about you watching me
From heaven up above
I think of you so often
But sometimes it’s with tears
As I recall the loving times
We had throughout the years
I think of you so often
And long to you see your face
Laughing eyes and sense of fun
No one can take your place
I think of you so often
It breaks my heart to know
That you are in another place
Where I am not ready to go
I think of you so often
But know that one sweet day
We will be together again
And I will get to say
‘I love you xxx
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I hope that you all have a lovely weekend
my friends,with love as always linda.xxx
back monday

Linda Hutt

November 26, 2009
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