| Location | North London/birth Place Hungary |
| Age | 69 years |
| Cause of Death | septicemia |
| Date of Birth | 28/06/1927 |
| Date of Death | 24/02/1997 |
| Visitors | 8,550 since 04/10/2008 |
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THANK YOU TO EVERYONE THAT VISITS MY DADS MEMORIAL,ESPECIALLY ON HIS ANGEL DAY,24 FEB 2009.
I WANT TO SAY A BIG THANK YOU,FOR MAKING MY DAD FEEL LOVED.MY DAD WAS A GOOD DAD,AND HAD SO MUCH
HEARTACHE BURRYING HIS 3 CHILDREN,KARL AGED 17 LOST HIS LIFE WHEN A CRAZY MANIC DROVE IN TO MY
BROTHER,MY BROTHER DAVID LOST HIS LIFE BECAUSE A NURSE FORGOT TO GIVE HIM HIS MEDICATION 2 STOP HIS
EPILEPTIC SEIZURES IN HOSPITAL,THEN THERES DAVID TWIN KAROLINE,WHO LOST HER FIGHT FOR LIFE AT 6 DAYS
OLD,WITH ORGAN FALUIRE,PREMATURE .DAD IS BEING THE GOOD FATHER UP THERE,AND WAS NEEDED .THANK YOU SO
MUCH FOR DADS GIFTS,CANDLES,PICTURES,POEMS ,CARDS,AND SUPPORTING OUR FAMILY,EVEN IN YOUR OWN
HEARTACHE.IM SURE MY DAD WILL THANK YOU IN YOUR DREAMS.GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND YOUR ANGELS XX
LOVE ALWAYS HALINA XX
♰ CHARLES VIDA ♰
BORN 28 JUNE 1927
DIED 24 FEBURY 1997
AGED 69 YEARS OLD.
LAID TO REST 6TH MARCH 1997
SEPTICEMIA TOOK MY FATHERS LIFE,BLOOD POISONING.
OUR FATHER WAS A PROUD HUNGARIAN MAN,
OUR FATHER WAS KNOWN AS CHARLES BY ALL HIS FRIENDS, OR CHARLIE .ONLY MY MUM CALLED HIM
KAROLY.KAROLY IS IN HUNGARIAN.A MOUTHFUL FOR HIS FRIENDS TO SAY.SO IM GOING TO CHANGE HIS MEMORIAL
TO WHAT HE WAS KNOWN BY,KAROLY WAS A RARE NAME ONLY MUM USED.
DAD WAS GIFTED,COULD FLUENTLY PLAY
INSTRUMENTS,TRUMPET,CLARIONET,PIANO.DAD WAS A MARVOLOUS PAINTER,A TAILOR,USED TO MAKE SUITS BY HAND
ETC,A PROFESSINOL PHOTOGRAPHER,DAD LOVED TO SING,WITH HIS TALENT THE WHOLE STREET WOULD LOVE TO COME
AND HEAR HIM,HE WAS A CHAMPIAN AT CHESS,COULD NEVER BE BEATED.DAD ENJOYED SPEAKING HIS VOICE,HE WAS
REGULARY HEARD CHATTING LIVE ON A RADIO STATION CALLED LBC.DAD WAS A GOOD COOK WHO LOVED TO TEACH
HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS HIS HUNGARIAN CUISINE.DAD HAD TO BRING 6 CHILDREN UP SINGLE HANDED,MUM HAD A
NERVOUS BREAKDOWN,AFTER LOSS OF DAVIDS TWIN KAROLINE ,AND LOSS TWO BABIES DURING HER PREGANCY AFTER
DAVID AND KAROLINE,MUM NEVER MADE A FALL RECOVERY,REG IN OUT HOSPITAL. DAD REALLY WAS A TALENTED MAN
,A GIFT FROM GOD, FAMILY AND FRIENDS WOULD SAY.......
OUR DAD WAS BORN FROM LOVING PARENTS IN HUNGARY.
HE WAS THE ELDEST,
THEN HIS BROTHER,
SADLY DAD LOST HIS KID SISTER AGED 9 YEARS OF AGE,
RUSSIANS INVADED HUNGARY.......
THEY BROKE IN TO THE FAMILY HOME......
AND SHOT BULLETS WITH A MACHINE GUN..... AT THE
FAMILY,
SO INOCENT,
ALL LINED UP AT THEIR FRONT DOOR,
♰
MY DAD WAS 17 AT THE TIME.
THE WHOLE FAMILY RECIEVED BULLET WOUNDS,
OUR DAD,HIS MUM,AND BROTHER BARELY SURVIVED
OUR NAN NEVER WAS THE SAME AGAIN........
HE SADLY LOST HIS FATHER AND KID SIS
SHE RECIEVED 47 BULLETS TO HER TINY BODY.....
DID NOT STAND A CHANCE
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MY DAD WAS A VERY PROUD MAN OF HIS CHILDREN,
KAROLY JR ♰
SANDRA
,ANDREW
,HALINA
,GABRIELLA,
♰ DAVID AND KAROLINE ♰
PROUD GRANDAD
,TO CAROLINE,JADE,LEE,TOMMY,TERRY,CARL, URSULA, AMY NATHAN,ANTHONY, AND CHRISTINA.
PROUD GREAT GRANDAD TO JORDAN AND SARAH,DAD NEVER GOT TO SEE.
IM SURE HE IS WATCHING OVER.
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MY DAD WAS A GOOD, HONEST HARD WORKING MAN.
HIS FAMILY WAS HIS WORLD.
MY DAD HAD TO BURY MY SISTER KAROLINE AT SIX DAYS OLD.
THEN MY DAD HAD TO BURY OUR BROTHER KAROLY VIDA AT 17 YRS OLD.
IF THAT WASNT ENOUGH MY DAD HAD TO BURY THE YOUNGEST OF HIS CHILDREN, DAVID, AGED 25.
MY DAD BARELY SURVIVIED ,
AFTER HIS SON KAROLY WAS TAKEN BACK BY GOD.
HE BLAMED HIMSELF AND TORMENTED HIMSELF WITH GUILT.
SAID WE SHOULDNT OF GONE ON HOLIDAY,
MY DAD WAS NOT THE ONE TO BLAME,
THE MAN RESPONSIBLE WALKS THE STREETS
STILL................................................................
DROVE HIS VAN INTO MY BROTHER ,JUST A KID OF 17,KARL JUNIOR VIDA.
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♰
MERCILESLY STOLE MY BRUVS LIFE IN SECONDS,
♰
MY DAD NEVER WAS THE SAME AGAIN............
MY DAD HAD TO BURY THEN OUR KID BRUV DAVID.
OUR BEAUTIFUL WORLD WAS CRUMBLING,
TOO HARD AND PAINFUL FOR OUR POOR DAD TO CARRY ON.
DAD GAVE UP THE WILL TO LIVE ANYMORE.............
OUR FATHER TOOK HIS LAST BREATH 24 FEB 1997.
SADLY HE LEFT US FOUR MONTHS AFTER BURYING MY KID BRUV DAVID.
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DIED FROM A BROKEN HEART...
HE HAD THE BEST SEND OFF...
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MISS YOU
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX LOVE YOU DAD XXXXXXXXXXXXX
♰
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YOU TAUGHT YOUR CHILDREN TO LOVE EACH
OTHER, RESPECT ONE ANOTHER, WE NEVER HAD A BAD
WORD TO SAY.WE JUST HUNG ON TO EACH OTHER SO
TIGHT.
♰
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YOUR ALWAYS REMEMBERED DAD WITH LOVE , THE PERSONALITY YOU HAD.
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YOU LEFT AN EMPTINESS BEHIND .......................
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YOU LIVE IN ALL YOUR CHILDREN THATS FOR SURE
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LOVE AND MISS YOU DAD
♰
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LOVE FROM YOUR CHILDREN YOU LEFT BEHIND
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LOOK AFTER MY BROTHERS DAD AND LIL SIS.
TELL THEM WE LOVE THEM SO MUCH
LETTING GO OF OUR BROTHERS IS SO HARD ACCEPT.........
PLEASE DAD HELP US TO KEEP STRONG.
BE ALL WAITING FOR ME WHEN I COME OVER I
I USE TO WISH EVERY DAY WAS THE LAST...YOU TAUGHT ME NOT TO QUIT EASILY .
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WE NEVER STOP THINKING AND MISSING YOU ALL,
MY HUBBY CHRISTOPHER HAS BEEN MY TOWER OF STRENGTH,
HE HAS HELPED ME CREATE THE MEMORIALS,
HOLDS MY MIND TOGETHER....
YOU LEFT AN EMPTINESS IN ALL YOUR CHILDREN,FAMILY AND .SO MANY FRIENDS YOU LEFT
BEHIND.........
♰
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COME AND VISIT IF YOU CAN,
YOU ALWAYS SAID YOU WOULD SEND A SIGNAL IF ANY THING HAPPENED TO YOU
..... IM WAITING .....
TAKE CARE DAD.
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YOU ALL BE GOOD UP THERE
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YOU WILL BE MISSED FOREVER
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ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS
♰
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I WOULD LIKE TO SAY THANK YOU DEAR FRIENDS, AND ANGELS LIGHTING CANDLES FOR MY DEAR DAD,GIFTS
PHOTOS, TRIBUTES AND SO MUCH SUPPORT.I WILL LIGHT AS MANY CANDLES FOR ALL YOUR ANGELS AND FRIENDS
XXXXXX SO MUCH IS APPRECEATED ♰
THANK YOU
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THANK YOU FRIENDS AND ANGELS
XXXXXXXXXXX GOD BLESS YOU XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
LOVE HALINA AND FAMILY XXXXXXXXXX
♰
10th JANUARY 2009
WHY?......
*♥*
On a cold and windy night
Angels took you away
Wrapped you up in cotten wool
And took you on your way
*♥*
They lay you on their wings
And flew you through the sky
Past the moon, past the sun
Way up the milky way high
*♥*
You was still sleeping
Not once did you awake
In the morning you were gone
It was a heartache to take
*♥*
Family asked why? why?
But they never got to know
And to this day they are confused
To why you had to go
*♥*
They will never get an answer
Till they meet again with you
Their heartache goes on
And all of them are blue
*♥*
They will struggle day to day
And cry lots of tears
But all they want is the truth
And not wait for many years.
*♥*
The gaudian Angels sent to all
to bear us up when we stumble and fall
Pray and hope and often you'll hear
the whisper of Angel wings hovering near*♥*
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GOODNIGHT SWEETHEART.X
SWEET DREAMS DARLING.XXX
AND GOD SAID
I said,
"God, I hurt."
And God said,
"I know."
I said,
"God, I cry a lot."
And God said,
"That is why I gave you tears."
I said,
"God, I am so depressed."
And God said,
"That is why I gave you Sunshine."
I said,
"God, life is so hard."
And God said,
"That is why I gave you loved ones."
I said,
"God, my loved one died."
And God said,
"So did mine."
I said,
"God, it is such a loss."
And God said,
"I saw mine nailed to the cross."
I said,
"God, but your loved one lives."
And God said,
"So does yours."
I said,
"God, where are they now?"
And God said,
"Mine is on My right and yours is in the Light."
I said,
"God, it hurts."
And God said,
"I know."
Author Unknown
MEMORIES OF YOU
Memories of you...
Will stay in my heart forever,
Memories of you...
I will always treasure.
Memories of you...
make me feel warm inside,
Memories of you...
are the love I cannot hide.
Memories of you...
help me through the day,
Memories of you...
will never fade away.
Memories of you...
are beautiful and dear,
They seem to grow still brighter
with every passing year.
Precious words by Sophia Parker
8th January 2009.
GOODNIGHT AND GOD BLESS.
☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆
This Ain't Living.
☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆
It’s been over ten thousand minutes since you said good-bye
And I’ve thought about that moment at least a million times
You were standing at the kitchen counter with a single tear in your eye
The day you changed my life
☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆
Well I’m still going through the motions
Well I’m still taking in the air
Oh my heart’s still beating
I’m still dreaming just like you were here
☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆
But something’s wrong, something’s missing
And it doesn’t seem fair
I’m doing all that I can do to make it through
Well I’m still breathing but this ain’t living
Without you
☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆
Well I can’t smell the roses and the rainbow’s just shades of grey
All those things that made me happy just don’t move me the same
I can’t help but remember us laughing and the way I held you every night
You made my whole world come alive
☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆
Well I’m still going through the motions
Well I’m still taking in the air
Oh my heart’s still beating
I’m still dreaming just like you were here
☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆
But something’s wrong, something’s missing
And it doesn’t seem fair
I’m doing all that I can do to make it through
Well I’m still breathing but this ain’t living
Without you
☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆
Well I was minding my own business down at our favourite bookstore
Contemplating my own existence when you walked through that door
You asked how I was doing so I gave my best to lie
But I wanted so bad to tell you what I really felt inside
☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆
(going through the motions)
Well I’m just taking in the air
Oh my heart’s still beating
I’m still dreaming just like you were here
☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆
But something’s wrong, something’s missing
And it doesn’t seem fair
I’m doing all that I can do to make it through
Well I’m still breathing but this ain’t living
Without you
☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆
Well I’m still breathing but this ain’t living
Without you.
☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆*♥*☆
LOVE JUDE.X
GOODNIGHT AND GOD BLESS
^♥^*^♥^*^♥^*^♥^*^♥^*^♥^*^♥^*^♥^*^♥^
♥♥ My breath
died♥♥
....with yours!♥♥
♥♥ My heart
stopped♥♥
....with yours!♥♥
♥♥ My life
ended♥♥....
with yours!♥♥
♥♥ Nothing is left to me!♥♥
....except the Love
you brought♥♥.
....Always, always,♥♥
...I shall have♥♥
your Love!♥♥
^♥^*^♥^*^♥^*^♥^LOVE*^♥^*^♥^*^♥^*^♥^*^♥^
JUDE.X
Dear Mr Hallmark
I am writing to you from Heaven, and though it must appear
A rather strange idea, I see everything from here.
I just popped in to visit, your stores to find a card
A card of love for my loved ones, as there finding it very hard.
There must be some mistake I thought, I saw every card you could imagine
Except I could not find a card, from a person who lives in heaven.
They are still my loved ones too, no matter where I reside
I had to leave, they understand, but oh the tears they cried.
I thought that if I wrote you, that you would come to know
That though I live in heaven now, I still love my family so.
They talk with me, and dream with me; we still share laughter too,
Memories are our way of speaking now, would you see what you could do?
My loved ones carries me in there heart, there tears they hide from sight.
They write poems to honor me, sometimes long into the night
They plants flowers in my garden, there my living memory dwells
They write to other grieving familys, trying to ease their pain as well.
So you see Mr.Hallmark, though I no longer live on earth
I must find a way to remind my family of there wondrous worth.
They need to be honored, and remembered too
Just as the people of earth will do.
Thank you Mr.Hallmark, I know you'll do your best
I have done all I can do; to you I'll leave the rest.
Find a way to tell them, how much they mean to me
Until I can do it for myself, when they join me in eternity
MISSED SO MUCH. XxXxX
Everyday in some small way
Memories of you come our way.
Though absent, you are always near
Still missed, loved and always dear.
We can't have old days back
When we were all together.
But secret tears and loving thoughts
Will be with us forever.
Your presence we miss,
Your memory we treasure,
Loving you always,
Forgetting you never!!!!.
6TH JANUARY 2009
GOOD MORNING SWEETHEART.
(*****)(*****)(*****)(*****)
Time has taken me from you,
although not very far.
I'll be watching through the sunshine
and through the brightest star.
I'll be watching all of you,
From the heavens up above.
So take good care of each other
and carry all my love.
If you're ever wondering
if I'm there, here's where you can start.
Take a look inside yourself
deep within your heart.
I'll always be your baby,
So anytime you need me,
close your eyes I'm back again.
(*****)(*****)(*****)(*****)
LOVE JUDE.X
GOODNIGHT SWEETHEART.XXX
★ It's miserable
★ without you here,
★ Life's really drab and dull
★ To see that happy smile of yours
★ would just be wonderful
★ Thoughts turn to you so many times
★ now that we are apart
★ Your missed much more
★ Than you can know
★ And kept so close in heart
★ Wish we could be together
★ And can't wait untill we are
★ But until then remember
★ Loving thoughts can travel far
★★
4TH JANUARY 2009
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰ Grieving in Silence ⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
Why must I grieve so silently
When my heart is loudly screaming?
The emptiness I feel consumes me.
O God! How I wish I were dreaming!
The silence around me is deafening,
For no one knows what to say
To comfort this pain I am feeling
Since my sweet son went away.
Each day the sun continues to rise,
And the earth - it still is turning;
Though my world has come to a screeching halt,
Nobody can ease my yearning.
For a part of me has vanished,
And a part of my heart has died,
And no one can hear my heartache
Or feel my turmoil inside.
So I'll go on grieving in silence
And exist on a separate plane;
I'll keep my love for him deep in my heart
Till we see each other again.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
LOVE JUDE.X
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
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