| Location | North London/birth Place Hungary |
| Age | 69 years |
| Cause of Death | septicemia |
| Date of Birth | 28/06/1927 |
| Date of Death | 24/02/1997 |
| Visitors | 8,309 since 04/10/2008 |
| Creator | |
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THANK YOU TO EVERYONE THAT VISITS MY DADS MEMORIAL,ESPECIALLY ON HIS ANGEL DAY,24 FEB 2009.
I WANT TO SAY A BIG THANK YOU,FOR MAKING MY DAD FEEL LOVED.MY DAD WAS A GOOD DAD,AND HAD SO MUCH
HEARTACHE BURRYING HIS 3 CHILDREN,KARL AGED 17 LOST HIS LIFE WHEN A CRAZY MANIC DROVE IN TO MY
BROTHER,MY BROTHER DAVID LOST HIS LIFE BECAUSE A NURSE FORGOT TO GIVE HIM HIS MEDICATION 2 STOP HIS
EPILEPTIC SEIZURES IN HOSPITAL,THEN THERES DAVID TWIN KAROLINE,WHO LOST HER FIGHT FOR LIFE AT 6 DAYS
OLD,WITH ORGAN FALUIRE,PREMATURE .DAD IS BEING THE GOOD FATHER UP THERE,AND WAS NEEDED .THANK YOU SO
MUCH FOR DADS GIFTS,CANDLES,PICTURES,POEMS ,CARDS,AND SUPPORTING OUR FAMILY,EVEN IN YOUR OWN
HEARTACHE.IM SURE MY DAD WILL THANK YOU IN YOUR DREAMS.GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND YOUR ANGELS XX
LOVE ALWAYS HALINA XX
â™° CHARLES VIDA â™°
BORN 28 JUNE 1927
DIED 24 FEBURY 1997
AGED 69 YEARS OLD.
LAID TO REST 6TH MARCH 1997
SEPTICEMIA TOOK MY FATHERS LIFE,BLOOD POISONING.
OUR FATHER WAS A PROUD HUNGARIAN MAN,
OUR FATHER WAS KNOWN AS CHARLES BY ALL HIS FRIENDS, OR CHARLIE .ONLY MY MUM CALLED HIM
KAROLY.KAROLY IS IN HUNGARIAN.A MOUTHFUL FOR HIS FRIENDS TO SAY.SO IM GOING TO CHANGE HIS MEMORIAL
TO WHAT HE WAS KNOWN BY,KAROLY WAS A RARE NAME ONLY MUM USED.
DAD WAS GIFTED,COULD FLUENTLY PLAY
INSTRUMENTS,TRUMPET,CLARIONET,PIANO.DAD WAS A MARVOLOUS PAINTER,A TAILOR,USED TO MAKE SUITS BY HAND
ETC,A PROFESSINOL PHOTOGRAPHER,DAD LOVED TO SING,WITH HIS TALENT THE WHOLE STREET WOULD LOVE TO COME
AND HEAR HIM,HE WAS A CHAMPIAN AT CHESS,COULD NEVER BE BEATED.DAD ENJOYED SPEAKING HIS VOICE,HE WAS
REGULARY HEARD CHATTING LIVE ON A RADIO STATION CALLED LBC.DAD WAS A GOOD COOK WHO LOVED TO TEACH
HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS HIS HUNGARIAN CUISINE.DAD HAD TO BRING 6 CHILDREN UP SINGLE HANDED,MUM HAD A
NERVOUS BREAKDOWN,AFTER LOSS OF DAVIDS TWIN KAROLINE ,AND LOSS TWO BABIES DURING HER PREGANCY AFTER
DAVID AND KAROLINE,MUM NEVER MADE A FALL RECOVERY,REG IN OUT HOSPITAL. DAD REALLY WAS A TALENTED MAN
,A GIFT FROM GOD, FAMILY AND FRIENDS WOULD SAY.......
OUR DAD WAS BORN FROM LOVING PARENTS IN HUNGARY.
HE WAS THE ELDEST,
THEN HIS BROTHER,
SADLY DAD LOST HIS KID SISTER AGED 9 YEARS OF AGE,
RUSSIANS INVADED HUNGARY.......
THEY BROKE IN TO THE FAMILY HOME......
AND SHOT BULLETS WITH A MACHINE GUN..... AT THE
FAMILY,
SO INOCENT,
ALL LINED UP AT THEIR FRONT DOOR,
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MY DAD WAS 17 AT THE TIME.
THE WHOLE FAMILY RECIEVED BULLET WOUNDS,
OUR DAD,HIS MUM,AND BROTHER BARELY SURVIVED
OUR NAN NEVER WAS THE SAME AGAIN........
HE SADLY LOST HIS FATHER AND KID SIS
SHE RECIEVED 47 BULLETS TO HER TINY BODY.....
DID NOT STAND A CHANCE
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MY DAD WAS A VERY PROUD MAN OF HIS CHILDREN,
KAROLY JR â™°
SANDRA
,ANDREW
,HALINA
,GABRIELLA,
â™° DAVID AND KAROLINE â™°
PROUD GRANDAD
,TO CAROLINE,JADE,LEE,TOMMY,TERRY,CARL, URSULA, AMY NATHAN,ANTHONY, AND CHRISTINA.
PROUD GREAT GRANDAD TO JORDAN AND SARAH,DAD NEVER GOT TO SEE.
IM SURE HE IS WATCHING OVER.
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MY DAD WAS A GOOD, HONEST HARD WORKING MAN.
HIS FAMILY WAS HIS WORLD.
MY DAD HAD TO BURY MY SISTER KAROLINE AT SIX DAYS OLD.
THEN MY DAD HAD TO BURY OUR BROTHER KAROLY VIDA AT 17 YRS OLD.
IF THAT WASNT ENOUGH MY DAD HAD TO BURY THE YOUNGEST OF HIS CHILDREN, DAVID, AGED 25.
MY DAD BARELY SURVIVIED ,
AFTER HIS SON KAROLY WAS TAKEN BACK BY GOD.
HE BLAMED HIMSELF AND TORMENTED HIMSELF WITH GUILT.
SAID WE SHOULDNT OF GONE ON HOLIDAY,
MY DAD WAS NOT THE ONE TO BLAME,
THE MAN RESPONSIBLE WALKS THE STREETS
STILL................................................................
DROVE HIS VAN INTO MY BROTHER ,JUST A KID OF 17,KARL JUNIOR VIDA.
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MERCILESLY STOLE MY BRUVS LIFE IN SECONDS,
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MY DAD NEVER WAS THE SAME AGAIN............
MY DAD HAD TO BURY THEN OUR KID BRUV DAVID.
OUR BEAUTIFUL WORLD WAS CRUMBLING,
TOO HARD AND PAINFUL FOR OUR POOR DAD TO CARRY ON.
DAD GAVE UP THE WILL TO LIVE ANYMORE.............
OUR FATHER TOOK HIS LAST BREATH 24 FEB 1997.
SADLY HE LEFT US FOUR MONTHS AFTER BURYING MY KID BRUV DAVID.
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DIED FROM A BROKEN HEART...
HE HAD THE BEST SEND OFF...
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MISS YOU
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX LOVE YOU DAD XXXXXXXXXXXXX
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YOU TAUGHT YOUR CHILDREN TO LOVE EACH
OTHER, RESPECT ONE ANOTHER, WE NEVER HAD A BAD
WORD TO SAY.WE JUST HUNG ON TO EACH OTHER SO
TIGHT.
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YOUR ALWAYS REMEMBERED DAD WITH LOVE , THE PERSONALITY YOU HAD.
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YOU LEFT AN EMPTINESS BEHIND .......................
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YOU LIVE IN ALL YOUR CHILDREN THATS FOR SURE
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LOVE AND MISS YOU DAD
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LOVE FROM YOUR CHILDREN YOU LEFT BEHIND
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LOOK AFTER MY BROTHERS DAD AND LIL SIS.
TELL THEM WE LOVE THEM SO MUCH
LETTING GO OF OUR BROTHERS IS SO HARD ACCEPT.........
PLEASE DAD HELP US TO KEEP STRONG.
BE ALL WAITING FOR ME WHEN I COME OVER I
I USE TO WISH EVERY DAY WAS THE LAST...YOU TAUGHT ME NOT TO QUIT EASILY .
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WE NEVER STOP THINKING AND MISSING YOU ALL,
MY HUBBY CHRISTOPHER HAS BEEN MY TOWER OF STRENGTH,
HE HAS HELPED ME CREATE THE MEMORIALS,
HOLDS MY MIND TOGETHER....
YOU LEFT AN EMPTINESS IN ALL YOUR CHILDREN,FAMILY AND .SO MANY FRIENDS YOU LEFT
BEHIND.........
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COME AND VISIT IF YOU CAN,
YOU ALWAYS SAID YOU WOULD SEND A SIGNAL IF ANY THING HAPPENED TO YOU
..... IM WAITING .....
TAKE CARE DAD.
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YOU ALL BE GOOD UP THERE
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YOU WILL BE MISSED FOREVER
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ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS
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I WOULD LIKE TO SAY THANK YOU DEAR FRIENDS, AND ANGELS LIGHTING CANDLES FOR MY DEAR DAD,GIFTS
PHOTOS, TRIBUTES AND SO MUCH SUPPORT.I WILL LIGHT AS MANY CANDLES FOR ALL YOUR ANGELS AND FRIENDS
XXXXXX SO MUCH IS APPRECEATED â™°
THANK YOU
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THANK YOU FRIENDS AND ANGELS
XXXXXXXXXXX GOD BLESS YOU XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
LOVE HALINA AND FAMILY XXXXXXXXXX
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If Your Knew
If you knew where I am standing
If you could see the sights I see
If you could hear the angels singing
The songs they sing eternally
If you knew the One I'm holding
Could see the smile He smiles at me
If you knew where I am resting
You would not cry for me
I'm resting in the arms of Jesus
No other place would I rather be
So if you shed a tear
Please don't shed it for me
For if you knew where I am resting
You would not cry for me
(by Steven Kinworthy)
Sweetdreams XxX
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........... (...(`.-``'**-.*)...)..........Just Peeking in
..............)......--.......--....(...........to say
............./......(o..._...o)....\..........Sweet
.............\.........(..0..)......./..........Dreams
..........__.`.-._...'='.._.-.*.__.......ANGEL
......./.......'#.'#.,.--.,.#'.#.'....\......
.......\__)).........'#'......... ((__/.....
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Sweetdreams XxX
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........... (...(`.-``'**-.*)...)..........Just Peeking in
..............)......--.......--....(...........to say
............./......(o..._...o)....\..........Sweet
.............\.........(..0..)......./..........Dreams
..........__.`.-._...'='.._.-.*.__.......ANGEL
......./.......'#.'#.,.--.,.#'.#.'....\......
.......\__)).........'#'......... ((__/.....
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Having problems with my computer, so leaving big hugs incase I can`t get on for a few days, love Christine xxx
SEE YOU IN MY DREAMS.......
HOW LONG DO MY TEARS TAKE TO DRY
I GUESS IT'S FOREVER BECAUSE I ALWAYS CRY
I MISS YOU SO MUCH MORE THAN I CAN TELL
IT SEEMS LIKE I AM LIVING A NIGHMARE A LIVING HELL
I AM SO LOST WITHOUT YOU I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO
NOTHING ON THIS EARTH WILL EVER BE THE SAME WITHOUT YOU
I LONG TO FEEL YOUR ARMS AROUND ME HOLDING ME TIGHT
HELPING ME GET THOUGH EACH AND EVERY NIGHT
MY HEART ACHES WITH SADDNESS I LONG FOR YOUR TOUCH
HOW HARD IT IS TO LIVE WITHOUT SOME ONE THAT I LOVE SO MUCH
EVERY MEMORY YOU LEFT IS MINE TO KEEP
COME TO ME IN MY DREAMS WHILE I SLEEP......
copyright© Rosalind Roberts 12/11/09
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♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ ♥ SWEET DREAMS ANGEL
IITH NOVEMBER 2009
✿..LET US REMEMBER THEM...✿
✿ 'Please wear a poppy', the lady said
and held one forth, but I shook my head.
Then I stopped and watched as she offered them there,
And her face was old, and lined with care;
But beneath the scars the years had made
There remained a smile that refused to fade.✿
✿ A boy came wistling down the street,
Bouncing along, on care free feet
His smile was full of joy and fun,
'Lady', said he, 'May I have one?'
When she pinned it on, he turned to say,
'Why do we wear a poppy today?'✿
✿ The lady smiled in her wistful way,
and answered, 'This is Rememberance Day,
And the poppy there is the symbol for,
the gallant men who died in war,
and because they died you and I are free--
Thats why we wear a poppy, you see'.✿
✿ 'I had a boy about your size,
with golden hair and big blue eyes.
He loved to play and jump and shout,
free as a bird he would race about.
As the years went by, he learned and grew
and became a man--as you will, too.' ✿
✿ 'He was fine and strong, with a boyish smile,
but he'd seemed with us such a little while
When war broke out and he went away,
I still remember his face that day.
When he smiled at me and said'Good-bye,
I'll soon be back, mom, so please don't cry'.✿
✿ 'But the war went on and he had to stay,
and all I could do was wait and pray.
His letters told of the awful fight,
(I can see it in my dreams at night),
with the tanks and guns and cruel Barbed wire,
and the mines and bullets, the bombs and fire.'✿
✿'Till at last the war was won-
and thats why we wear a poppy son'.
The small boy turned as if to go,
Then said 'Thanks lady, I'm glad to know.
That sure did sound like an awful fight,
But your Son-- did he come back alright?'✿
✿ A tear rolled down each faded cheek;
she shook her head, but didn't speak.
I slunk away in a sort of shame,
and if you were me you'd have done the same;
For our thanks, in giving, is oft delayed,
though our freedome was bought-and thousands paid.✿
✿ And so when we see a poppy worn, let us reflect on the burden borne
By those who gave their very all
and asked to answer their country's call
That we at home in peace might live.
Then wear a poppy. Remember-- and give!✿
✿ Lest we forget......✿
Copyright ~ 2009 by Blair Leger & ilovepoetry.com
WITH LOVE.XXX
IF ROSES GROW IN HEAVEN
*• ♥ .•**•.. ♥ .•**•.. ♥ .•**•.. ♥ •*• ♥ .•**•.. ♥ .•**•.. ♥ .•**•.. ♥ •
If Roses grow in Heaven,
Lord please pick a bunch for me
Place them in my Loved ones arms
And tell them they're from me
*• ♥ .•**•..
Tell them I love and miss them
And when they turn to smile
Place a kiss upon their cheeks
And hold them for awhile
*• ♥ .•**•..
Because remembering them is easy,
I do it every day
But there's an ache within my Heart
Because I am missing them today.
*• ♥ .•**•..
♥ Love as always,Lynn..xxx ♥
IITH NOVEMBER 2009
✿..LET US REMEMBER THEM...✿
✿ 'Please wear a poppy', the lady said
and held one forth, but I shook my head.
Then I stopped and watched as she offered them there,
And her face was old, and lined with care;
But beneath the scars the years had made
There remained a smile that refused to fade.✿
✿ A boy came wistling down the street,
Bouncing along, on care free feet
His smile was full of joy and fun,
'Lady', said he, 'May I have one?'
When she pinned it on, he turned to say,
'Why do we wear a poppy today?'✿
✿ The lady smiled in her wistful way,
and answered, 'This is Rememberance Day,
And the poppy there is the symbol for,
the gallant men who died in war,
and because they died you and I are free--
Thats why we wear a poppy, you see'.✿
✿ 'I had a boy about your size,
with golden hair and big blue eyes.
He loved to play and jump and shout,
free as a bird he would race about.
As the years went by, he learned and grew
and became a man--as you will, too.' ✿
✿ 'He was fine and strong, with a boyish smile,
but he'd seemed with us such a little while
When war broke out and he went away,
I still remember his face that day.
When he smiled at me and said'Good-bye,
I'll soon be back, mom, so please don't cry'.✿
✿ 'But the war went on and he had to stay,
and all I could do was wait and pray.
His letters told of the awful fight,
(I can see it in my dreams at night),
with the tanks and guns and cruel Barbed wire,
and the mines and bullets, the bombs and fire.'✿
✿'Till at last the war was won-
and thats why we wear a poppy son'.
The small boy turned as if to go,
Then said 'Thanks lady, I'm glad to know.
That sure did sound like an awful fight,
But your Son-- did he come back alright?'✿
✿ A tear rolled down each faded cheek;
she shook her head, but didn't speak.
I slunk away in a sort of shame,
and if you were me you'd have done the same;
For our thanks, in giving, is oft delayed,
though our freedome was bought-and thousands paid.✿
✿ And so when we see a poppy worn, let us reflect on the burden borne
By those who gave their very all
and asked to answer their country's call
That we at home in peace might live.
Then wear a poppy. Remember-- and give!✿
✿ Lest we forget......✿
Copyright ~ 2009 by Blair Leger & ilovepoetry.com
COMFORT
2 Cor. 1:3-5
Surrounded by friends
yet all alone
the one I loved
God has called home
the hugs of friends
helps ease the pain
and I know my loss
is my loved one's gain
but tears now flow
across my face
as I long for just
one more embrace
then comfort comes
and I see Christ's face
He hugs my loved one
and I feel God's grace.
DON'T CRY ANY MORE
Don't cry any more tears for me, I am at peace, I'm finally free.
Like the eagle in the sky, I am soaring, so please don't cry.
I know you love me, I love you too,
But my time was over, was finally through.
I have ascended to a better place,
Which is not confined by time or space.
To those that loved me, I did not fall,
I only succumbed to a higher call.
Do not mourn me, I am with you still.
I'll be with you always, from dawn-----until.
Copyright © 2000 Kathi Toups
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